You cannot separate the means from the end. The means are always the end.
You can't separate the "how" from the "what". How you build something determines what is ultimately built.
You can only build the Church using Kingdom methods. When we use other methods, the thing we've built is no longer the Church. It might look like the Church from a distance, it might even have the word "church" on the marquee. But it isn't the church. It is simply another 501c3 calling itself a church.
The Kingdom can only expand through you to the extent that it expands in you.